I have previously written about stress and I have
also shared my own story about how I managed to free myself from stress. I
know from the feedback I have received, and the work I do with project
managers, that feeling confident and at ease is an on-going challenge. We work
in hectic environments and are at times just getting by – trying to keep the
client happy, staying on top of our inbox and avoiding conflict. Wellbeing is
not the word that springs to mind when we think of project management.
Wellbeing is something we may focus on in our spare time to recover and get
back to balance.
But what would it take if we really wanted to feel better
whilst working on our projects? Scientists claim that wellbeing is a skill we
can all learn and that the effects can be observed in the mind. All it takes is
practice. The more we practice the more we will strengthen those circuits in
the brain that promote higher levels of wellbeing.
Let’s examine the four ingredients that lead to wellbeing.
Resilience
The first ingredient, resilience, is the ability
to bounce back and recover from stress and adversity. In other words, it’s the
speed at which we recover from unexpected changes and difficult situations.
Some people recover slowly and other people recover more quickly. It turns out
that scientists can measure the time it takes for our brain to bounce back and
that this time span is critical for understanding resilience. Individuals who
show a more rapid recovery have higher levels of wellbeing. They are in many
ways protected from stress and the many unexpected events that happen on a
project.
To strengthen your resilience, train yourself to see the
opportunities in every situation. Projects are dynamic with risks and issues
popping up on a daily basis. The more you resist and fight against them the
more prolonged your stress response will be. Instead, accept that changes and
problems are inevitable, even with the best risk management approach. When a
problem occurs, do what you can to resolve it without getting caught up in a
negative emotional spiral. Reframe the situation and see the positive angles.
There are always opportunities to grow and learn from adversity, we just need
to train ourselves to see it. Some of my biggest personal transformations came
from the biggest challenges on my project.
To bounce back and recover from an unpleasant
piece of news, first become aware of the physical impact on your body. Your
heart rate will increase and your palms may get sweaty. At this moment, don’t
panic or start to give orders. Instead, pause and take a deep breath. In fact,
take three deep breaths and let go of the negativity and the urge to react.
From that place not only will you feel better, you will also be in a better
position to make rational and intelligent choices about how to resolve the
situation.
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